Weekend Warm-Up: New Life

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Caroline and her son Arthur. Photo: Caroline Ciavaldini/Once Upon a Climb

Climber and North Face athlete Caroline Ciavaldini is used to taking risks. Calculating her next moves, testing her skills on each climb was a way of life that she couldn’t imagine herself without. But a sudden pregnancy forced her to reevaluate.

To Caroline and her partner, fellow climber James Pearson, parenthood was the riskiest thing they had ever done. In particular, it is one of the biggest struggles for female athletes: when and if to have children.

Caroline Ciavaldini. Photo: The North Face

This determined mother-to-be continued climbing with a baby boy bouncing around in her belly up to seven months. To her, climbing was already a risk, and climbing while pregnant was no different. While most people she knew called it irresponsible and selfish, she decided to trust her instincts.

A screenshot from the film of Caroline Ciavaldini pregnant and climbing. Photo: The North Face

After their son Arthur was born, Caroline and James decided to get back into the game. Arthur began sharing his parents’ expedition lifestyle at just a few months old. He accompanied them to the rock walls and small mountains close to their home. In between naps and feeding, Caroline managed to find her place in the world again, as both a mother and climber. She underwent some postpartum retraining to rebuild her foundations on small walls and boulders after a five-month sabbatical.

Although she and her partner were unable to travel often, she found happiness in exploring new territories and routes close by, while spending lots of time with her son. According to her, a happy parent equals a happy child. That was the ultimate goal.

As Arthur began to explore the world around him (even doing a bit of climbing himself), Caroline and James decided that their lifestyle was a good way of teaching him the importance of taking risks, discipline, freedom of choice, and patience — their own “hands-on” approach to life.

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About the Author

Kristine De Abreu

Kristine De Abreu

Kristine De Abreu is a writer (and occasional photographer) based in sunny Trinidad and Tobago.

Since graduating from the University of Leicester with a BA in English and History, she has pursued a full-time writing career, exploring multiple niches before settling on travel and exploration. While studying for an additional diploma in travel journalism with the British College of Journalism, she began writing for ExWeb.

Currently, she works at a travel magazine in Trinidad as an editorial assistant and is also ExWeb's Weird Wonder Woman, reporting on the world's natural oddities as well as general stories from the world of exploration.

Although she isn't a climber (yet!), she hikes in the bush, has been known to make friends with iguanas and quote the Lord of the Rings trilogy from start to finish.

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Lenore Jones
Lenore Jones
6 days ago

So glad Explorersweb is back up!

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Jerry Kobalenko
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6 days ago
Reply to  Lenore Jones

So are we! A major server issue, IT people dealing with each other over multiple time zones, kept us down over a day. Should be all fixed now.

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